Here’s the thing—you know those super-hot scenes in TV shows and movies when a woman enters a room with a guy she likes and tackles him rugby-style with desire and passion? They’re both breathing heavily, chests heaving, and kissing each other as if the world were going to end. Clothes are ripped off without a care to buttons and seams and thrown on the floor without a second thought. The women in those scenes are sexy, passionate and in-charge. They know what they want, and what they want is sex.