Love, Sex & Toys in India

If choosing your first sex toy seems a little overwhelming, you’re not alone. Whether you’re from a culture where female pleasure and erotic toys are talked openly about or not, there’s a lot to consider before making your choice. The payoff, however, is totally worth it! Here’s a fun fact: 80% of our Indian customers here at Lovetreats are buying a sex toy for the first time when they come across our website. We asked them how they went about deciding which sex toy to start with and here’s what our newbies say are the most important things to consider when buying your first toy.

  When it comes to first-time sex toy users, taking the first step can seem anxiety-provoking, especially in India where it’s uncommon for women or couples to openly talk about intimacy and erotic toys. But for many of our customers, making the choice to buy their first vibrator ends up changing their entire outlook on female pleasure - it can truly be a life-changing experience. Take our customer Anita, for example.

Keeping your toys clean and properly stored is not only important for durable usage and maintenance, but also essential for our health. While there's nothing "dirty" about genitals, bacteria can build up on your toys and spread, so it's important to clean them correctly.

Real Information for the Uninitiated For those of you in India just discovering you have a kinky side, it is our belief that having access to the right kind of information is vital. In light of this, we kick-started a series of interviews with Asmi Uniqus, to help you understand the ideology behind BDSM and learn everything you need to know about BDSM in India. Whether you seek a 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship or you just want to add a little kink in the bedroom, we hope this guide to BDSM in India helps you discover where to go, and what you need to know to feel comfortable and safe while exploring.

These are our favourite sexy Indian TV commercials! Who doesn't love Indian TV ads? Weird, funny, emotional or downright awkward - Indian brands never fail to surprise us with unusual advertisement clips. Heartwarming love stories and family dramas as common in Indian TV commercials as Bollywood dance moves and colourful outfits. And because - as we all know - sex sells, even some of the most prudish Indian brands have experimented with provocative sexual content to get us excited about their products. We have compiled a list of our favourite sexy Indian ads (although, to be honest, some of them are more funny than sexy).

Awesome 3some, Freesome I remember my first threesome experience fondly. Well… more like I cringe a little bit, and shake my head in embarrassed disappointment. My younger (more sexually experimental) self was a ball of confusion and angst, but mostly just raging hormones, crying out for the female body. Have I mentioned I’m a female? Yup, I’m a lesbian (or as a I like to see it, sexually fluid, but that’s a whole other story).

Just started chatting with someone new and interesting? Perhaps you are in a long distance relationship and want to keep the connection going. Whatever be the case, in this age of Tinder, Whatsapp, and Snapchat, chances are you are going to exchange erotic text messages at some point or field requests, from the man or the woman of the moment, to share a sexy selfie of yourself. So here is a quick sexting guide to everything you need to know about the art of erotic messaging and sexy selfies in India!

So this time, I bring you practical experiences people. No gyaan, no pravachan, but sizzling, sensuous, games of Dominance, Control, Pain and Pleasure for you, my friends! This article is especially for people who have been watching from the fringes and are curious to experiment with dominance play and more. For those of you who want your first taste with your partner and are not sure where to begin or how far to go, let me help you design your first basic, simple BDSM session.

How to find a kinky partner who is into BDSM is one of the most common questions I receive from my Indian readers and my audience where I’m a speaker. While there’s no black and white answer to this and what works for me may never work for other people; I do understand why this question is so urgent, especially in a country like India where the BDSM community is less visible.

The most desirable and unconventional, frightening and exciting - anal play has been practised by people for centuries and yet there is a lot of mystery about it. “Is it painful?!”, “How to do it right?!”, “How to avoid the... mess??” the questions rush through our head every time someone accidentally touches us there.

  While most of us would like to admit otherwise, we have all, at some point in our lives, indulged in some good-ol’ self-love. Yet, when it comes to talking about masturbation and sex toys, most Indian men and women are still pretty awkward and would rather not acknowledge it. That’s understandable, given that masturbation is still a big taboo in India.

Sex during a pregnancy is quite a taboo in India, but it actually isn’t as scary as it may sometimes seem. It’s a totally normal part of a pregnancy – as long as the pregnancy isn’t with complications, or your doctor advises you otherwise. But if all else seems to be going as per schedule and you and your partner feel like having sex, sex during pregnancy can be as good as sex during other times, and we would encourage Indian couples to give it a try!

All You Need To Know About Period Sex How often have you wondered what sex during periods would feel like? Did you ever stop yourself fearing the messiness or what your partner would think? Even though sex during periods is still a big taboo in India, there is nothing gross, unnatural or unhygienic about period sex. Just because you’re having your period doesn't mean you have to forego sex.

In 2015, two people who had no plans or intentions to start a business when the year started, discovered they both had the same idea, talked about Lovetreats as an actual project in January, went live in October and shipped their 400th order in December. Here's how it all started...

With Valentine’s day just round the corner, we thought we’d share some sexy Valentine’s Day Date stories and fantasies to inspire you and help you bring in a sexy spin to your plans too! Ready to surprise your partner on Valentine's Day? Read on!